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Is Bernard Tomic the most normal, honest man in pro tennis?

Watch this video interview two weeks ago with Bernard Tomic and ask yourself if you have ever seen a more normal, sane, honest, regular young man in professional tennis?

Tomic has taken a lot of heat for his extreme honesty about his confidence issues and career frustrations. No other player has ever confessed he doesn’t feel good enough to win Grand Slams and that sometimes he loses interest and struggles to compete to the best of his ability.

Isn’t that human? Where is the media compassion for this man for admitting his frailties?

Like he tells the interviewer about his partying lifestyle, most people would do the same thing if they were young and rich.

Watching this interview, Tomic strikes me as the most authentic, likable, honest, straight-forward man in not only tennis but pro sports.

I just want to put it on the record that while so many people in the media and in the sport of tennis ridicule, condemn, mock and insult Bernard Tomic, I fully support and respect his brave honesty to speak his mind, his truth. It takes a lot of guts and courage to do that.

As Jim Brown once said, “Most people are afraid to tell the truth.”

We at tennis-prose are in your corner Bernard, if by chance he happens to read this. We appreciate and respect you for telling us the truth and not bullshitting us with cliches and company lines. In some ways, you have more guts that anyone else in tennis. High respect.

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89 comments

  • George · February 4, 2019 at 9:39 pm

    I agree 110% and have the exact same perception of Tomic.

    I was happy to see him win in Chengdu last year. He looked genuinely elated. I don’t think he has the concentration to win a slam, however.

    Never liked Hewitt and his incessant c’mons. Had an opponent do that to me in a tournament final and I wanted to punch him in the face…

  • catherine · February 5, 2019 at 1:03 am

    Well, Scoop, we all here might have different views on Tomic. Myself, I don’t have any in particular because I’m not terribly interested in Australian tennis squabbles – except to say the big revelation about Hewitt turned out to be a bit of a damp squib – something which happened 9 years ago…

    Seems to me everyone concerned should grow up a bit.

    And as for ‘truth’ – I’m with Pontius Pilate there.

  • Wayne Bradford · February 5, 2019 at 1:48 am

    That interview is from over a year ago. I haven’t found the latest 60 Minutes interview but the highlight is that Tomic wants to knock out Hewitt.

    https://www.news.com.au/sport/tennis/australia-reacts-to-bernard-tomics-weird-behaviour-during-explosive-interview/news-story/1c41377441168f72a946ab267d05b291

    Tomic said he would now knock Hewitt out if he came within “two metres” of him.

    Tomic stood by a text message he sent to Hewitt two years but angrily denied suggestions from the former world No. 1 that he’d threatened his family.

    “I did message him, threatening. The exact words I said was, ‘If you come one metre from me I’ll knock you out’ and he knows that,” Tomic said. “But did I say, mention his family? That’s pretty low. How low do you have to be to mention family and kids and stuff. I think that’s one of the lowest things I have heard from him say.

    “For him to say that, that’s really low. To go that low and make me look that bad is really low. Now the fact that he has said that, if he comes two metres from me.”

  • Dan Markowitz · February 5, 2019 at 7:47 am

    Tonic is right to call Hewitt out, but the fact of the matter without having read or listened to this interview is To ic is a flea on Hewitt’s buttocks tennis-wise. The guy has either had a disappointing or embarrassing adder and he’s taking on the last Aussie man to have won a slam. So it’s a losing battle. Maybe Hewitt’s ways have been wrong and unethical, but why would he support Tomic after the way he’s conducted his career? And for Tomic to mention anything about punching someone out after his father was suspended for doing just that, is repugnant. Bernie maybe boxing is your sport because it certainly doesn’t look like you much of a present or future in tennis.

  • Scoop Malinowski · February 5, 2019 at 8:49 am

    George, he’s too normal to win a major title maybe, does not have that freakish desire, obsession, drive that it takes. He’s earned a lot of money and he’s content, like so many of the top 20 players. he also understands better than the media and fans how impossibly challenging it is to win a major and get through those three obsessed maniacs Federer Nadal and Djokovic, not to mention several other emerging players who will eventually get there. It was nice to see him with that title in Chengdu vs Fognini.

  • Scoop Malinowski · February 5, 2019 at 8:51 am

    Curious who would win that battle, Tomic seems more eager but Hewitt is ultra fiery and hates to lose. I’d pay $50 to see it on PPV. Don King are you out there?

  • Scoop Malinowski · February 5, 2019 at 8:52 am

    Dan, Tomic just won a title late last year in Chengdu, he’s back into the top 100. He seems to be working hard.

  • Dan Markowitz · February 5, 2019 at 12:00 pm

    Oh, wow, Tomic won a title in a tournament I’ve never heard of and couldn’t name what country its in. Geez, that’s great to be in the Top 100 for a guy who if I’m not mistaken reached the Wimby semis at 18. Come on, Scoop, you’re better than that. Tomic’s career has for the most part been an abject failure. He shouldn’t mention Hewitt’s name other than in homage. The guy comes from a family with a nutcase father, and how normal is Tomic when he was driving around sports cars when he was 18.

    None of these guys are too normal, and let’s see the guy get into the second week of a slam before we start saying he’s doing well. You’re letting him off the hook way too much.

  • Hartt · February 5, 2019 at 2:17 pm

    How “normal” is it for a 22-year-old to have a mug shot, like Tomic did in 2015?

    “Tomic was arrested, handcuffed and transported to Miami’s Turner Guilford Knight Correctional Center. The 22-year-old is shirtless in the mugshot released by the Miami Beach Police Department.”

    Scoop, would you really want a youngster to emulate Tomic’s behaviour? This is just one incident among others, including reckless driving when he was very fortunate he did injure or kill someone.

  • Scoop Malinowski · February 5, 2019 at 6:55 pm

    Hartt, it’s normal behavior for young guys in America, I went through those days. The pop culture of America leads people into that party wild lifestyle. I was never arrested but we had the cops over at our Jersey Shore house parties, same thing basically. Tomic is a typical young male with a wild rebel streak. Totally normal.

  • Scoop Malinowski · February 5, 2019 at 6:58 pm

    Dan, Tomic has had a fantastic career. He said his family arrived in Australia with about $200 and he became a top tennis pl;ayer in the world. Miraculous really. Tomic deserves a lot of credit. Surely he missed out on his childhood for tennis and needed to experience life outside tennis and his wealth allowed some extravagant behavior that ran amok. Tomic is a miracle. Yes he could have done more, but he also could have failed or achieved a lot less.

  • Wayne Bradford · February 6, 2019 at 12:54 am

    I hate to agree with Scoop but he is right. Tomic has achieved amazing things, getting ranked in the top 20 and a Wimby QF. Has millions in the bank too. Not sure threatening Hewitt is a smart move though since it makes him look small. I am starting to believe he has no evidence on Hewitt, just the regular knowledge that Hewitt is the jerk we all know.

    Speaking of Aussie tennis, Kyrgios is playing in Dallas for some reason before he heads to Rotterdam next week. He is probably there just to watch NBA. Nick has been practicing his basketball this week, according to Instagram.

    Cressy got stomped by Christian Harrison so he got throttled as I predicted.

  • Wayne Bradford · February 6, 2019 at 12:56 am

    Nick has been “working” with the young Stefan Kozlov, who I believe beat Zverev as a junior. He celebrated Kozlov’s 21st birthday.

    https://www.instagram.com/p/BtXAJTaADue/

  • catherine · February 6, 2019 at 1:39 am

    Scoop, I don’t think it’s ‘totally normal’ for a young guy to behave the way Tomic has done in the past and seems to be doing still. And the miracle isn’t that he’s a good tennis player but that he hasn’t killed someone with his dangerous driving in ridiculously fast cars. Quite rightly the police in the US and in Australia value a human life over the ability to hit a fuzzy ball.

    And as for Tomic’s father – you wonder how Bernard would’ve turned out if he’d had a more balanced paternal figure. We never hear about his mother – don’t know if she’s still around. He has a sister who plays and Bernard’s been upfront in criticising TA for not supporting her enough. Not much truth in that in turned out. He really likes to pick fights with everyone and anyone.

    Tomic’s career can be summed up so far in one word – ‘waste’. Waste of talent, waste of opportunity, just waste.

    Australia’s one of the easiest places in the world to live in – nice weather, relaxed lifestyle, not a lot of reality sometimes. Maybe Tomic Jnr could have done with a bit of that latter quality when he was growing up.

  • Scoop Malinowski · February 6, 2019 at 8:46 am

    Kozlov lost 1R inDallas to Alex Rybakov, last week in helost to Schnur after barely beating Wessels. Kozlov struggling again.

  • Chazz · February 6, 2019 at 9:06 am

    Kozlov not only lost to some Rybakov guy, he got destroyed 2 and 1. Anyone else laugh at Kyrgios mentoring someone? It’s very funny to me.

  • Scoop Malinowski · February 6, 2019 at 9:33 am

    I guess Kyrgios must be a great mate to hang out with and play video games and have fun but not to be a top pro. Kozlov has been associated with Nick since last summer. Needless to say his results have been just as bad as Nick’s. Must all be a coincidence.

  • Hartt · February 6, 2019 at 11:00 am

    Scoop, maybe you were wild as a young man, but that doesn’t make this normal behaviour. The majority of young men must not behave like this, or our society would be in even bigger trouble than it is. The difference with Tomic is that he refused to leave the hotel when the police told him to, and then resisted arrest. The other young guys involved at least had enough sense to comply with the police.

    Bernard has lost his license at least twice because of his reckless driving, and has bragged that he has driven 352 km/h. Even if he is exaggerating, that kind of behaviour is a tragedy waiting to happen, and the person killed or injured probably will be someone else.

  • Wayne Bradford · February 6, 2019 at 1:34 pm

    Here is the latest 60 Minutes Tomic piece from Sunday:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9twSufXV3N8

  • Scoop Malinowski · February 6, 2019 at 6:49 pm

    hartt, someone can get killed crossing the street. I don’t see Tomic as a danger to society. Sure he over partied a few times and made some immature decisions but no one was hurt and it looks like he’s matured. Some of my friends were similar to Tomic and all went on to successful lives, some of course did not. Fine line. Alcohol and drugs ruin lives.

  • Wayne Bradford · February 7, 2019 at 1:33 am

    Did any of you watch that 60 Minutes? It was interesting to see Tomic and his father get along so well despite their past. I believe Tomic’s father beat up somebody who practiced with his son.

    They are both going after Hewitt hard. It really can’t get any worse for Hewitt. If I was him, I would move to the Canary Islands and away from the Aussie media spotlight. This will dog his career forever that Tomic wants to beat him up. Hewitt does have a punchable personality but it is not right that Tomic can so brazenly say he wants to punch him out. Tennis needs a commissioner to step into these situations.

  • Wayne Bradford · February 7, 2019 at 3:43 am

    Breaking news: Jack Sock pulls out of Delray Beach tournament.

  • catherine · February 7, 2019 at 7:43 am

    Wayne – you don’t need a tennis comissioner for these situations. It’s a matter of legality – threatening someone with bodily harm. But I can’t see anyone taking this stupid spat seriously enough to go to law.

    Another player withdrawing – Osaka is out of Doha with a back injury. If serious, not good at 21. If tactical, not good either.

  • Scoop Malinowski · February 7, 2019 at 8:57 am

    Tomic’s father said the hitting partner Drouet spit in his face, that’s why he punched him. So he did the thing. Spitting on someone is assault.

  • Scoop Malinowski · February 7, 2019 at 8:59 am

    Tomic said if Hewitt goes within one meter of his body will knock him out. Hewitt simply needs to follow Tomic’s rules and there is no trouble. If Hewitt wants trouble they have a deal in place where the terms and conditions are known now.

  • Hartt · February 7, 2019 at 2:32 pm

    Scoop, you believe what Tomic’s father said? He put the hitting partner in the hospital. That is real assault.

  • Doogie · February 7, 2019 at 6:05 pm

    @scoop:

    I think u should write an article here about the ITF vs players dispute.

    And what about that?
    The ITF will receive an estimated $70 Million dollars (2017-2021) from selling it’s data to betting companies. That is $17.5 million per year.

    ATP vs ITF about ATP points for transition tour:
    ATP told ITF they can players ATP points if they stop selling its data to betting companies.

    For me this is a huge story!

  • Scoop Malinowski · February 7, 2019 at 7:09 pm

    Hartt, the hitting partner Drouet spit in Mr. Tomic’s face. When you do that, you deserve to be punched or head butted or worse. You do not spit in another man’s face. That’s a major risk and deserves extreme retaliation. And it is assault.

  • Scoop Malinowski · February 7, 2019 at 7:10 pm

    Doogie it is, and I read tennis players only get 10% of the revenues and NBA guys get 50%. This is another big story if true.

  • Hartt · February 7, 2019 at 10:02 pm

    Scoop, I am not so quick to believe what Tomic said. Is there any proof that the hitting partner did that?

  • Wayne Bradford · February 7, 2019 at 10:32 pm

    Come on people. Would this be acceptable in any other sport. if Ben Rothlisberg threatened to punch Tom Brady, the NFL commissioner would step in. If some basketball player threatened to punch Lebron James, the NBA commissioner would step in. Same goes for baseball.

    In tennis no one is in charge so Tomic saying that can go unchecked. It is a bad look for the sport. I understand that he reason no one is in charge is that the Slams and the ATP don’t want to concede power to each other but you can’t be allowed to say you want to punch someone. Even someone despicable like Hewitt who probably deserves it.

    Wally Masur on that program said he can fix the issues between the two but once threats are issued, it is not salvageable. I do think Hewitt should stop playing doubles but of course, he has nothing better to do.

    Imagine if Naomi said that about Serena? The world would be in an uproar. Tomic can’t be allowed to come out and say that he wants to punch Hewitt. It’s outrageous.

  • catherine · February 8, 2019 at 2:12 am

    Wayne – the NBA, NFL etc are US sports – tennis is international and there are no ‘commissioners’ so this is a domestic dispute for TA to handle if anyone there is interested. Or a sharp letter to Bernard from Hewitt’s lawyers, pointing out the consequences of uttering public threats, might do the trick.

    Scoop – even if Drouet did spit in Tomic Srs face, in a civilised society you do not retaliate to the extent of putting someone in hospital. That’s a crime. It’s called GBH. Spitting comes a little lower down on the list.

  • Scoop Malinowski · February 8, 2019 at 8:37 am

    Hartt, if Tomic said this on international TV you have to believe it. The hitting partner, to my knowledge, has not come out and denied that accusation.

  • Scoop Malinowski · February 8, 2019 at 8:40 am

    Tomic said if Hewitt comes within one meter of him he will knock him out. Tomic did not say he wants to punch Hewitt, but if Hewitt approaches him to confront him in any way he will pay dearly for it. Tomic is laying down the rules and Hewitt has to obey them. For whatever reasons Tomic absolutely detests Hewtt. That is what Tomic is saying. You have to try to interpret the situation a little better and clearly instead of just kneejerking saying Oh Tomic wants to punch Hewitt.

  • Scoop Malinowski · February 8, 2019 at 8:44 am

    Catherine, there’s a thing called frontier justice, where men settle there differences the old fashioned way. It used to be duels and gun fights, then fist fights, then it went to legal battles. I tend to prefer the old fashioned ways. Where a jackass has to be accountable for his actions or words and not weasel away and hide behind a lawyer or police officer. Public hangings and executions would also help deter bad behavior.

  • Hartt · February 8, 2019 at 9:32 am

    This is from a Tennis.com piece at the time of the incident. This is a guy we are supposed to believe? It sounds like he has no control over his temper.

    “John Tomic is notorious for clashes, including having a public heated argument with Australian Open tournament director Craig Tiley that led to security guards being placed around Tiley; being involved in a road-rage incident in 2006 in which he forced a car occupied by two coaches and a female junior player off the road.”

    Tomic received an 8-month suspended sentence for the attack, and had to pay substantial damages to Drouet.

    “And it won’t come cheap for Tomic, who will be told next week to stump up as much 300,000 euros ($435,000 AUD) compensation to Drouet.”

    Drouet suffered substantial injuries.

  • Hartt · February 8, 2019 at 9:36 am

    I pressed submit by mistake. Had meant to include:

    “Among the confirmed medical findings were loss of earnings from him being off work for two and a half months, three operations, some breathing difficulties from his smashed nose which remains crooked, a twisted cervical vertebrae from the head butt and fall, back issues and a poor shoulder which still requires a cortisone injection every few months. There are also to be costs imposed for distress which has required psychological counselling, future loss of earnings and legal fees.

    In a separate action yesterday the French authorities moved to recover State-funded medical treatment for Drouet from Tomic. The final figure could be as high as 300,000 euros.” (Courier and Mail)

  • Hartt · February 8, 2019 at 9:45 am

    Fellow trainer Sosa could not handle working for the Tomics, and called John Tomic a “barbarian.”

    “Spanish-born Sosa who quit the team in utter frustration also after seven months said in 27 years on the international tennis circuit, including working with some of the biggest names in the sport, he had never seen anything like the unbelievable scenes.”

    “I’ve worked with parents and sons so for me it’s something that I wanted as a challenge, but they live in some symbiosis,” he said. “It’s a brutal symbiosis.”(news.au.com)

  • Scoop Malinowski · February 8, 2019 at 9:51 am

    Hartt, imagine how crazy it is for a hitting partner to spit in the face of such a lunatic. Big mistake. If he did do it he deserved what he got. And the punitive damages were pretty good too 🙂

  • catherine · February 8, 2019 at 10:00 am

    Scoop – I think we’ve moved beyond ‘frontier justice’ and I have to believe you’re joking about public executions.

    However, not a subject I’m prepared to argue about on T-P.

    Hartt – good research and matches everything I’ve heard about John Tomic. Maybe his sentence should not have been ‘suspended’. Absolutely criminal behaviour.

  • Scoop Malinowski · February 8, 2019 at 10:44 am

    Andrei Kozlov said nothing but good things about John Tomic. From some stories I have heard, what Tomic did was far far less than what certain other tennis fathers have done, but it was never reported. There are, as we know, some very wacky tennis parents out there. And let me say John Tomic is not the world no. 1 ranked crazy tennis father either 🙂

  • Wayne Bradford · February 8, 2019 at 12:23 pm

    Scoop, should Tomic instead challenge Hewitt to a duel or to Russian Roulette. Is that what you are suggesting? Maybe they can do an Aaron Burr-style duel inside Rod Laver Arena to drum up the ESPN ratings. Or at the very least a pre-match public hanging in Melbourne!

  • Hartt · February 8, 2019 at 12:27 pm

    Scoop, where did you get the info that the hitting partner spat in Tomic’s face? In all the reports I read, even one where Tomic defended his actions, there was no reference to that, although there were references to Tomic spitting in Drouet’s face. If you are basing it on something Tomic said, I would take that with a grain of salt.

  • Dan Markowitz · February 8, 2019 at 3:40 pm

    Scoop,

    If I were you, I’d drop it. When you start defending John Tomic you’re fighting a no-win battle. John Tomic might be the worst tennis dad; even worse than Dokic’s crazy dad.

  • Scoop Malinowski · February 8, 2019 at 6:27 pm

    Tomic vs Hewitt 5 rounds of boxing, Don King promoter. $1m winner take all. That would settle the dispute.

  • Scoop Malinowski · February 8, 2019 at 8:01 pm

    Shapovalov loses again, to Pierre Hugues Herbert in SS in Montpellier QF. He should win that match.

  • Wayne Bradford · February 9, 2019 at 12:29 am

    Scoop, why stop at boxing? You suggested a duel like Hamilton v. Burr. Make it Hewitt v. Tomic with loaded guns at Rod Laver Arena! That is some real frontier justice.

    Mike Tyson can be the chair umpire.

  • catherine · February 9, 2019 at 2:06 am

    In Sofia Monfils beats Tsitsipas in SS – the consensus is that Elina has made the difference….

    And Johanna Konta (and Katie Boulter) winning some matches for GB in Fed Cup at Bath University sports centre.

    Huge crowds of 200 + cheered GB on 🙂

    Are Katie and Jack S still an item ?

  • Hartt · February 9, 2019 at 6:44 am

    Ah, the power of a good woman! 🙂
    Monfils needed to get things in gear, he is not a spring chicken.

    As far as I know, Katie and Jack have not been an item for some time now.

  • catherine · February 9, 2019 at 7:51 am

    Hartt – thanks for that social update

    Jack certainly doesn’t seem a good bet for long term commitment does he ?

    Monfils and Svitolina win RG singles ?

    Laugh if you must but don’t forget Ostapenko won in Paris not so long ago 🙂

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